hi. i just wanted to ask a few more questions-
first off, i am 18. i've been with my bf for very long time now and i know i am ready. i love him very much. and we have discussed all of the things you mentioned. i'm just trying to get myself FULLY mentally prepared:) but i'm worried about him looking up my butt cuz i think it is gross. i guess i am very critical about myself and my body. i just don't know if it would be gross and if there is any hair and stuff
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? solightninglove answered Tuesday July 22 2008, 2:42 am: good. okay so what does your boyfriend think about the hair. my boyfriend at first said that he didn't want hair there but now that it would be like he was with the wrong girl if there was no hair hahah. (oh by the way ive not had sex but have had oral.) as far as being mentally prepared thats something i have been struggling with myself. one minute i'm all for having sex the next i'm terrified. we are getting close to it though. we've been together for a year and four months. i think you just have to let it happen though. you don't really plan for it. you know? i think waxing would be better if your going for no hair though because if you shave your hair gets thicker and thats not cool. haha. i know a lot of people do shave but its not a huge deal if you don't. i'm so glad to hear that your ready and not just doing it because of some other stupid reason. a lot of people make that mistake and i'm sure you know that. i don't know if i answered your question that well. hmm lately my bf and i have been close to sex. like we have been really close to it. has that happened with you too. you need to be comfortable if you are to enjoy it right? have you guys been naked together. if not i strongly suggest this. just be naked together. no sex. it helps you get so much more comfortable with the other person. my boyfriend and i watch movies naked or just lie together naked. its nice because i know we are just laying there. not doing sexual things. anyway i hope that makes sense lol. i hope i answered some of your questions, please ask if you have more :) [ solightninglove's advice column | Ask solightninglove A Question ]
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