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Question Posted Friday July 18 2008, 12:21 pm

Hello my name is Kyrie i'm 12 years old and there is this boy that I really really like and we have been going out for a month but he just won't open up to me please tell me how I can get him to actually talk to me!!!!

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surferchick16 answered Friday July 18 2008, 12:50 pm:
Hey Kyrie, thanks for the question. My adivce to you is to give him time to open up to you, as you get older, youll learn that the shy guys are the easiest to talk to once they begin to open up. If you just ask him basic questions about himself, he'll begin to see your not there to hurt him and he'll begin to talk to you. What I usually do, is smile first, and make eye contact, believe it or not, that goes along way. He obviously likes you, as he is dating you, so just give him a little more time, and ask him if somethings bothering him. He may have trouble opening up to you, b/c of something that happened to him in his life before. I'm dating a guy like that, and he's kinda afraid to open up, b/c he hates his family life. He was abused growing up, and hes afraid to trust people. It may be that same with your guy. In all honesty, I don't know b/c I don't know him, but it could be. You never know. Just keep on getting to know him, and things will be great!

Email me if you need anything else. Best of luck! :)

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