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girls stepping all over me.
o.k. i just don't know how to stop other girls from stepping all over me. i feel like they are always saying something about me. and they talk about how stupid i am. what is the matter with them. i feel like they want to nag me or play with my head.
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First off, who are these girls? Are they your friends or just random girls that you know?
Because if they're your friends, then they don't seem to be doing too good a job of being friends. And if they are your friends, then maybe you should ask them why they're acting the way they are and saying those things. Let them know that it hurts you and you don't appreciate it. Also, find out if they're being serious or just joking around with you. But even if it's just a joke, let them know that it hurts.
Now, on the other hand, if these girls are not your friends, then I wouldn't let it bother you too much about what they say. Now I know that's easier said than done, but it's the best thing you could do. They probably just put you down because they're trying to cover up and make up for their own flaws and imperfections. And some girls do just get joy from playing with other people's heads. The best thing you can do is try to not let it phase you, or let them know that what they're saying isn't going to bring you down. Basically, just show off that you're self esteem can't be affected by their cruelness. It might make them realize how low their self esteem really is.
But I hope things work out for you, because girls can sometimes pull the cruelest stunts and say the meanest things. Keep me updated if things change or if not, and I'll be here to try and help you out as best I can =).
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