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so confusedd!!
me and my boy have been together for a year.
he'll be turning 18 in a month and a couple months after ill be turning seventeen.
I am going to be a junior next year, he'll be a freshman in college...
dont get me wrong, i love him to death, but hes more than likely moving to florida..
lets just say this year has been the hardest year of my life with all the deaths of my friends and im very much a girl who has stressed with anxiety and depression, which has gotten better.
this summer, idk what to do. Me being only 17 soon and a junior in high school trying to work out a very long distance relationship, (i live in NY) .. i love him, he loves me so much.. he recently messed up and kissed another girl being drunk, long story with that but i took him back, and he has been soo good not going out to party at all or anything.. i just worry of everything that could happen while hes in florida, not even having the full trust back..
i dont wanna hear an answer oh he cheated on you
hes leaving yoru young just break things off
cause i just cantt, its not that easy although i know i should
irealllllllllllllly could use some advice from anyone who knows someone who was in the situatoin, or gone through this themselves
itd be a lot of help.. thanks : )
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this a tough one i actually was almost in this same situation with my ex she wanted to move to florida and b4 she was g2g we discussed it and said it would be very hard to work it out it was either we both went or she stays..well she ended up staying..long distance is very hard and im not saying break things off but try it out see how it goes after a month if you start to notice things being different with him if he starts acting weird i would end it cuz its not worth getting yourself frustrated and worrying every night believe me i no the feeling
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Take the chance. I mean, if he breaks your trust again, then you know he's a loser. If he doesn't, you'll be very glad you tried to work things out.
Good luck.
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I've def. been in ur situation. Give him a chance to prove to you that you can trust him, but if he messes up again i think you should break it off or something. It'll be hard, but atleast you wont get hurt. No one can tell u wat to do and make you change how you feel...just do what you think is right. =]
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