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Past or present.
Alright, so long story short.
Three years ago, I had my first relationship (long distance) and it was the best relationship I've ever had. We lasted for about 6 months, but I ended it because of personal reasons. However, now we still talk and everything. I have a boyfriend right now and we've been together for a little over a month. But we started liking each other since the end of March. I'm his first girlfriend, so it's new for him. He's my third boyfriend. The thing is, recently my boyfriend and I haven't really been talking because he's been really busy. And when the chance comes for us to talk online or something, he's not really into the conversation and the convo just dies. And another thing, he doesn't call me often at all. I talked to him about it before and he said he'd call me more often, but that doesn't happen. All talk and no walk? -__x
My very first boyfriend will be going to college next year. I'm going to be a senior and so will my boyfriend right now. But the thing is, I still may have feelings for my first. Even though it's been 3 years, the relationship we had was really strong. He has a girlfriend right now too, but they plan on breaking up when they get to college.
My first and I have so many similarities and we're interested in the same things, but my boyfriend now; we barely have any similar interests. I don't know if I should continue and work it out with my boyfriend right now, or if I should take a break and clear my thoughts. Or if I should take a second chance with my first. Or if I should just wait it out and see what happens.
Thanks in advance.
17/f
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you should give it time between you and your current boyfriend. also talk things out with him about how he never calls and hes so busy. thats not a good boyfriend, if hes always busy and doesnt have enough time to talk to you. then again, he is new to this... but that shouldnt matter.
also wait to break up with your boyfriend before your first bf ever breaks up with his girlfriend. if you break up with yours thinking that youll get back together with the other guy, and then he doesnt break up with his girlfriend, youll be devastated. also talk to your first boyfriend and tell him how you feel. then talk it out. who knows, maybe both of you should be getting back together after all.
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I think if you don't have anything in common with your current boyfriend then, there really isn't anything you can do... So just tell him you think it isn't working out and you'd want to break up. This is a good opportunity as you ex is going to be single soon and so are you, when you end your relationship with your current boyfriend. Just make sure that your ex wants you too, so that you don't seem desperate kind of, you know?!
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