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What the heck is he thinking? And what the heck do I do?
mmk. So I was with this guy for maybe 8 months? Okay. Well we were really close and he had told me that he loved me, and that it would never change. Then all of a sudden he just disappeared off the face of the Earth. He was gone for about 3-4 months. And I never received any notice that our relationship had ended, but when he came back, he wouldn't talk to me and he ignored me. Then finally one day. Oh and I hadn't ever tried to talk to him when he came back, because I was nervous. But one day he decided to talk to me, and it was just like it used to be. But then he refused to talk to me after that. I have no idea what's going on. He still hasn't told me it's over. Although I assume it is, for obvious reasons. But it's like he's holding back and I don't know why. Then not too long ago he told me that he 'forgot that he ever loved me'. Can you forget that? What's his problem? And should I just ignore him right back? I haven't made any move to speak to him again, because he hurt me so bad.
I'm just terribly confused and any advice on what's happening would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you.
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This guy sounds either extremely confused or extremely selfish or both. My guess is both, since no one who isn't confused tells someone they love them and then "forgets" and no one who isn't selfish completely ditches someone they say they love. My advice would not be to ignore him, it would be to tell him you think he's being a jerk. Let him know how you feel. If things turn around, then you know he's a good guy. If nothing changes even after he hears of your feelings, you aren't losing out on much - he only cares about himself.
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He sounds like a total jerk! Sorry to say, but he played you. He comes to you when ever he wants and things like that do NOT show love! The fact that he said he FORGOT just proves it! YOu're right, if he really did love you, he would never have forgotten! So I suggest you ignore him COMPLETELY and avoid him, do not spend any time on him or whatever, he simply isn't worth it! Someone who treats you liek dirt is definitely not someone you should be spending your time with, there are SO many poeple out there! Don't waste your time!
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