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Ello.
Hi. Im the same girl that asked a question about bra sizes, and something messed just happened.
I just got back from a pool party with a couple of my friends. And My bes guy friend Steven TOOK MY TOP OFF!
He just completely untied it when we were playing chicken. How was I saposed to react besides screaming and practicly punching Steven in the face. He took it as some huge joke too.
Everyone said to lighten up, because it's not the big of a deal... But it is! This random ten year old saw my boobs. Now im not trying to denie that this probably isnt the first pair he's seen but I could so live without knowing Hes seen mine. Its called Porn.
I dont know why he doesnt care. He said that I wasnt the only girl with big 'TITS' --who says that anyway and I was like fine then go get another girl that will let you do that and leave me the hell alone.
And he know whats to be friends again.
You said you were a guy.. would you do this to someone if you were just friends with them. And knew how self consious she is about this? Just for a couple laughs? I dont know how to get it thru his head that U dont do that.
I also think Adam took a picture.
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Sounds like you got screwed over. I think you acted perfectly fine. I know if i did that to any of my "just friends" they would be mad (especially if they were self conscious)
And they would probably kill me if someone took a picture.
So first off i think your reaction was fine.
Second tell him what he did was NOT ok, no matter how funny or ok he and his friends thought it was, it wasn't ok to you and thats all that matters.
Tell him if he thinks it's so funny then go find some girl who thinks it's as funny.
If he wants to be friends then tell him he needs to apologize. And to understand he can't do that to you anymore because your self conscious.
And if he refuses then maybe he isn't the guy you thought he was and maybe to move on and don't be friends anymore. Find someone who respects you enough not to do that
Hope it helped
Tell me how it goes
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
Haha nice good for your friends.
If you needed revenge i would have suggested pantsing him after he comes outta the pool ;)
Well i am glad it got resolved.
And ask me as many questions as you want ill be here to help :)
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