i recently went to the doctor
and she was talking with my mother about my pap smear (which i havent had yet)
and i have a few questions
my mom doesnt know ive had sex :/
if i do have a papsmear and they find i have HPV, will she know ive had sex
the only way to get it is through sex isnt it?
also, at what age will i have to have it?
do i have a choice?
oh, and does it hurt?
Also, your doctor can not, legally, reveal such information to your mother unless you give her permission too. It is private.
Simply bring up your concern with your doctor privately and make sure she is clear that you don't want her discussing your results with your mother.
You certainly have a choice; however, it would be irresponsible to not get a pap. Every woman, ESPECIALLY sexually active women, should get one once a year. It's like going to the dentist. It's important and part of taking care of your body.
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