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Don't feel anything
When my boyfriend eats me out I don't think it feels good at all, and people tell me how it feels amazing. This is the first guy I've did anything with like this. And I'm the first girl he's ate out, so I don't know if he's just bad or I'm just not normal.
And when he fingers me it feels good, but like I feel like I should orgasm from it but I don't. And it was stupid, but I fake it now, because he thinks he's doing really good, so I go along with it ha. I don't know where the "spot" is.
I think I've masterbated like ten times in my life, I don't really like it, so I've never found the spot. Everything's wierd.
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Not everyone can orgasm easy, and you seem to be one of them :] It's completely cool, and nothing to worry about. It will just take a little experimenting to figure out what you like.
Don't Fake It.
- From now on, if you don't orgasm, me honest about it. Just because you don't orgasm, doesn't mean it doesn't feel good. Let your boyfriend know that. Experiment with yourself until you find something you like. Your boyfriend can help you.
Not everyone likes to just be fingered, or oral sex. Some people [like you ;)] are a little more complicated.
You'll eventually find what's right for you.
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hey, so my names Caroline and im going to try and help you out.
It seems like the relationship you're in is taking over from the guys side, you shouldn't fake an orgasm because that is a special part of having sex and is the most important part. You want to have a good time while having sex right? So you should just tell your boyfriend what feels good and what doesn't that way he knows you have an opinon on things (guys like that) AND you will have an enjoyable sex time.
You guys need to experiment with each other!
Hope i helped!
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