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GUY EMERGENCY
ok so i have a problem i went to this party the other day and it was both guys & gurls. most ppl left except for some ppl and they were pretty good friends so we were playing spin the bottle and it landed on me and the guy that spun it said to french kiss him in his room so we walked to his room and locked the door. THEN we just started making out, he put his hand in my shirt, i gave hime a lapdance, humping, all of that btw im 13F, and like he almost put his hand down my pants, we were rolling on the floor making out and all of that, we accidently thought we locked the door but we didnt and then we accidently opened the door and every1 saw us the saw everything we did and i feel it was wrong but i liked it all and so did he.
Then they spun the bottle again and they dared me and the same guy again, they dared me to do everything we did in front of every1 and we did. then my parents picked me up while we were doing everything.
HELLLLPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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It would have helped us a LOT if you included your parents reaction. I'd try explaining to them that you're growing up & won't be a little kid forever, and such.
If you didn't want people to find out you shouldn't have done it again. Accept this as a learning experiene and move on from it. And if you want to date this guy, that's another question altogether.
Of course, if PDA is your thing, by all means continue, just know that some people might be really offended/grossed out/get mad at you for it (i.e. parents). And humping each other at a party is going too far, in my opinion. Especially since you're only thirteen.
-LM
[16/f]
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What is your question? Are you asking what to do now what your parents caught you?
Well this is what you need to do. If your parents were really offended by it, and you're HONESTLY sorry about it, then apologize.
If apologizing is not what you want to do, then I don't know what you can do. Maybe just let your parents know that you are likely going to continue your... escapades with making out, and that they should at least respect that you are old enough to make decisions for yourself.
When approaching your parents, don't be all immature and stuff. Act your age and be respectful. Do not give your parents a tone, and do not act as if you know everything. They are your parents and they deserve respect.
If that wasn't what you were looking for- I don't know how else to help you..
--Jack
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