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A guy took advantage of me when i was drunk
Okay so there is this guy that i hooked up with ( made out) with around 6 months ago.. we can call him bill. And ever since then ive kinda liked him on and off unless i hung out with him i would develop feelings again. Many of my friends told me that if i was to hook up with him again it would get rid of the confused empty feeling inside. I didnt know if it was a good idea b/c my parents recently like 2 days ago got divorced and i am just generally upset but yeah. So then last night i drank alitttttle too much and i was texted him telling him to meet up with me so that i could tell him how i felt, he wasn't too interested b/c a. it was 1am, b. it was hard to sneak out and c. hes had no idea what i wanted to tell him. so by this point i just needed to get it off my chest so i started changing my attitude towards him and in his turns almost " seducing" him to come over, keep in mind i was kinda "not fully there" at that time. so eventually he came over and we talked for a good hour just about life and stuff and i told him i may like him again and he said that he still liked the girl he was previously in a fling with and i said it wasnt his fault for not liking me even though two days ago he was really leading me on... to skip to the real problem after our talk things kinda drastically shifted. We started hooking up and from there it got really out of control. We had talked about giving head but when it came down to me actually doing it he was really almost abusive and i couldnt breath. I had done it before and it wasnt anything like this at all last time. Plus now it was 3am and i was legitimately falling asleep and he wouldnt stop. We ended up doing everything except for anal and general sex. Now hes being a complete asswhole to me and i just need to some help trying to come up with something to say to him w/ being a hypocrite b/c of the fact i kinda led him to believe it was okay. Even though it is never okay to take advantage of a drunk girl.
:/ 15/f
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wow it really seems like you had a long night.
This is a really hard situation to come out of, but since hes being such a jerk I would avoid him. You dont deserve that at all. He should feel like a jerk for taking advantage of you. you shouldn't say anything to him, he doesn't deserve you in my opinion.
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