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some love advice?
Hi Alin! Cool name!
I was just wondering if you could help me out.
Im 14, and way to young for a serous boyfriend but ive had one for the past 2 years and every time i ended it he won me back again and now im through so i ended it for good last week and now hes already over it and im still hurting and it makes me even worse that hes already kissing other girls!
My question is, whats your advice for getting over a relationship? How long does it take? How do you know if your really over it or if its going to come back? How long does this hurt for? And is it serously fine that hes over it already? And how do i honestly get over this for good? Whatever it takes. Thank you so much!
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Hey there,
I got to tell you, you have the wrong person I think. I have a terrible track record with getting over relationships and crushes. I will try to offer some input, but you are probably much better off asking someone who knows what they are talking about :)
About all I can say is that it will last longer the more you are in contact with this person. Its a little like quiting smoking, you need to go cold turkey and you need to get yourself as far away from the "bad habit" as possible. Try to avoid talking, seeing, interacting, or generally being around this guy.
The second thing is that you should try to keep yourself busy and active. You dont want to be sitting at home with nothing to do but thinking of old memories. Also it helps to meet new people. Once you meet someone else you like, the old crush will be easier to forget.
As for how long it takes, that is impossible to tell. Similarly it is very hard to know if the feelings could return. Feelings are so darned unpredictable that way.
In regards to him being over it, I think it shows he may not have been quite as emotionally invested in the relationship as you were. That being said, he is not doing anything wrong since you broke up with him.
Well thats about it. Just give it some time, be patient, and I am sure you will be fine.
Good luck.
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