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cheatting
what would you ask ur bf/gf to find out if hes cheating...
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'Are you cheating?'
There is no way, short of walking in on them, to know for certain if someone if cheating or not. There is no litmus test, or magic question you can ask that will unveil all their secrets to you.
There is only the truth. Not from them! FROM YOU!
If you think your partner is cheating, tell them so. If you care about them at all, they deserve a chance to respond to your fears. If you keep your fears to yourself, you are only making the relationship toxic. If you snoop and spy, you are lowering yourself.
If you think your partner is cheating, tell them you believe so, and tell them why you feel this way. Let them respond to you. Ideally, they should want to reassure you and make some reasonable changes to help you feel more confident. Either that or they'll confess.
There is no fool-proof system to keep your partner from cheating on you. People in this life WILL betray you. It's a guarantee. Sometimes you'll get out before they do. Other times they will pull the wool over your eyes. It happens to the best of us.
Being in a relationship requires trust. If you can't trust your partner, you shouldn't be with them, it doesn't matter if they cheated or not! If you can't believe that they didn't or won’t, break up with them right now.
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