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FROM:She didn't get grossed out when she saw two women kiss?
sorry but i should put more detail in my question.
frist i did not say i think same sex kissing is gross. second i do not push her to be with me.
i was saying that my friend always hates kissing scenes and usally they are men and women kiss scene this time its two women kissing and she didnt react in a gross way to it.
i didnt look at her just in a blurr of the corner of my eye i see her trun to me. i smiled at the scene and i think she did too.
i have a crush on her for 7 years. i told her my feelings and that i am bi sexual. but i am just curious at the monment because i never been with a women and she is my frist girl crush. i never get close to her or lean on her or show any feelings to her. she is the one who flirts with me and leans on me sometimes. thats why i ask her if she likes me more than a friend. she reply "not as of now i see you as a sister"
but she still flirts with me, we both talk about how we are both sexaul confused and she said she is bi curious.
i ask this question to get a opinion of why she trun to my way after that kiss scene. i think she wanted to know how i would react to it and she might be cuirous to know how it would feel to kiss a women. but i dont want to me a "try out" if i kiss her or she kiss me it will screw me up because i would never move on and get over her. thats why i dont want to kiss her but if she wants to kiss me for a "try out" she should look at some one else. or if she wants to kiss me because she might like me then hell thats great.
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Alright. I understand what you're saying; however, I think you're being unreasonable.
I honestly think that if the girl does like you that she would have said something by now. I mean, the scene would have been the moment that she made a true move forward from a friendship to something more.
I really think the look didn't mean anything and you should just let it go. If it's really getting to you then you honestly need to talk to your friend and see what was going on in her head. Communication is key in any relationship--including friendships.
I understand about not wanting to kiss her because you'd be stuck on her; however, if you're interested in a relationship then you need to realize that you may already be in that situation--not being able to get over her. I mean, her looking at you during a lesbian kissing scene really got to you very much, and this indicates that you are having more feelings for her than you may want to admit.
I'm sorry to let you down but if your friend said she wasn't interested and only saw you as a sister then you're going to have to move on from her and find someone else. She is in a confused state apparently since she isn't quite sure of her sexuality, and this means it's time for you to step away. It's really better to leave her to figure out her own issues before you step back into the picture--once she figures out if she really is interested in girls or not you'll know if you honestly do have a chance somehow.
In other words:
Stop hanging out with the girl so much if it's really causing you this much stress. It's wrong for her to be leading you on (flirting) and then claim she isn't interested in you. I know she is confused and you're just going to have to give her time to find out her own self before you can pursue anything more.
I think the look was just a look. I think she just glanced over to see your reaction to the scene. Again, she is confused about herself right now and maybe she was just trying to see if you felt the scene was acceptable so she knew if she could enjoy it or needed to say she did not like it.
Her statement of, "Not as of now..." means she is NOT interested in you right now, but may be in the future after she has figured herself out. Leave the relationship idea behind right now and let her do what she needs to do to figure out what she is going to do in the future regarding boyfriends/girlfriends. You can always step back into the picture once she decides what gender she enjoys being with more.
I'm sorry this is a hard situation you've been put in. Please take time to relax and focus more on yourself rather than a girl who seems to be unsure of herself.
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