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the blowjob issue
i said it was my friend but really, it was me cause i didnt know how else to put it on internet, i feel so low of myself for doing it, and also giving a guy blowjob but he pressured me into doing it and i dont find any purpose in telling adults. should i tell my boyfriend or no? it's catching up to me and i feel trapped and we have the whole future planned together, like marrying, and really living the rest of our lives together. Should i swear to myself that it will never ever happen or should i tell him? Please help me!
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I know what you mean. But it depends on how well your boyfriend is. Most people would say just tell your boyfriend. But, if you really like him and want to spend the rest of your life with him and you think he will leave you, then honestly, don't. If hes understanding and will forgive you then tell him. But the fact is, that you did it. Even if the guy pressured you into it, you did it. and nothing can change that. Just don't do it agian. It all depends on how your boyfriend is. It shouldn't matter if your boyfriend leaves you or stays with you on wether on not you should promise yourself that you shouldn't do it. YOU SHOULD NEVER DO ANYTHING YOUR NOT CONFERTABLE DOING. Its easier said than done. But just remember that. LIke i said, If your boyfriend is understanding and will belive you when you say you won't ever do this agian, then tell him. (As long as there has been no trust issues before) Otherwise, you shouldn't. And if he finds out just be like i didn't want you to leave me. I love you more than anything, i didn't want to do it. I just really had no choice.
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