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am i pushing him away?
Well lately i've been getting kind of mean toward my bf who i really do care about. but i dont know whats wrong with me! what are some good exercises to help me space myself from him so that he doesnt push himself away from me?
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well, since your asking to get space from him, maybe you don't really like him as much as you did. think about it, why do you want space? is he around you too much? do you want a break? if hes obsessing over you, then tell him you need space. if its just you and you like having alone time, then tell him your with your friends or something. but in the end, you should probably tell him the truth because things will only get worse.
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First of all determine WHY you are being mean to him? I am reading two things that stand out to me in your question.
The first is that you have mood swings - if it's b/c of something you can change, then change it. If it's b/c of something you can't change because you are bi-polar or need medication, go to the doctor and get the medicine needed. St. Johns Wort is also a type of suppliment or vitamin that will help with the different moods and being mean.
The second thing I noticed is that you are asking for advice to space yourself from him, so that he doesn't push himself away from me. Are you being mean because you are tired of him? Are you tired of your relationship and feel suffocated, like you need space? Distancing yourself could also push him away, just as being mean to him for no reason. So, what's really up with you? If you need some space, let him know that up front verbally. If you don't want space but want to be a little nicer, start relaxing more. If you can't control your ways then seek help to determine what's unbalanced to cause you to be mean. Are you mean to him only or are you just mean? that plays a fact also in this.
feel free to email me if you need more information or want to give me more information in order to get more information because there are things being left out of the question which makes me feel like my answer is incomplete.
sophia_pettus@yahoo.com
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