ok, my friends and i have recently started going to clubs where we grind with guys and stuff. me, being the white girl i am, have NO RHYTHM haha. i can kinda sorta semi dance when im in front of a mirror and watching myself do it, but even if i take my eyes off the mirror, its like i lose cordination. i know people say just move with the music, but i feel like such an idiot because there's no rhythm in me. when i grind, its like my lower back has soo limited movement. i dont even know like.. when you grind, do you do your hips in a circular motion, or like in the "wave" kinda motion up and down? people say to watch other people and music vids and stuff. but i just cant move like that. well i kinda can, but not. at least not without a mirror hahaha. any help? and this is farfetched, but can anyone tell me how to 'vibrate'?
notyourmomsadvice answered Tuesday June 10 2008, 5:11 pm: Maybe a good way to spend some free time would be belly dancing lessons. They teach you how to move your body and it's great exercise. You can also buy "How To" dvds online that will guide you step by step through "hip hop" lessons. Check ebay, google and amazon for instructional dance videos. [ notyourmomsadvice's advice column | Ask notyourmomsadvice A Question ]
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