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okay so let me give you some background info i am a girl and i lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 4 months ago and as usaual it was painful. It actually hurt the first 2 times. Then the third time it was idk. It didnt feel good it just didnt hurt. Everytime i have sex now im on my 7th time it feels like i have to pee and i tried peeing before sex but it still feels like i have to pee. My boyfriend always asks me if it feels good. i mean I moan in stuff but only because its sex and its more so the mood and the atmosphere that turns me on but it just dont feel good. but it doesnt hurt. please help
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Sounds as if you aren't really ready to be having sex or at least not with this person. Also, some women feel like the are going to pee when they are getting ready to orgasm. Some women also need stimulation other than him going in and out to enjoy sex. HOWEVER, sex is closely linked to emotion for most people and depending on how you really feel about this boy will have a lot to do with how aroused you get and how much you enjoy it. FYI-- the boy should be making sure you enjoy it and not just be after his own "release" and if he isn't then he's not the right one to be having sex with. There is no magic anything you can try to "make it feel good" you have to learn what feels good to you and what turns you on. Some people spend years trying to figure out what it is that really gets them going--others figure it out rather quickly. Make sure he is using a condom and don't fall for the "it doesn't feel the same" routine. If he cares for you he will wrap it.
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