So.. me and this guy have talked for a few yeas, to close. Last year fora few months we were erally close .. but then I introduced him to my best friend we will call Jen. All this year we talked 24/7 , not even kidding. I was always his first choice and he was always mine to go to or anything. For the last month .. we haven't been talking that much, and for the last week and a half he has been a real jerk to me, and my best friend even told me today that he does like he did actually admit it.. and it hurts, im sad
My best friend "CLAIMS" she doesn't like him , and still asks if i like him. She told one of our friends she did. Theyre always together, she like replaced me.. help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? VeNzUeLa answered Friday June 6 2008, 7:07 am: Firstly, don't be angry at your friend, she sounds really caring to have 'claimed' she didn't like him, but at the same time tell another friend she does. So tell this friend you still REALLY like the guy, pretend to not know that she likes him too. And tell her that he's been a jerk for not keeping in touch in a while, and you'd like her to help out since she talks to him too. This is kind of mean because it's like manipulating your friend, but what are friends for?! ;D Don't think of it as she REPLACED you, but rather as she also made a new friend, the same guy.
If you want, you can talk to the guy in person and ask him what's up, ask him how things are going and stuff, there probably is something going on. So be a good, caring friend and ask him. Better do it in person, because then he can't avoid anything. ;)
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