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boyfriends parents
okay so my boyfriends parents don't like me, and i don't know what i did for them to hate me so much. My boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 months. I have only gone to his house 2 and he's been to mine 2 and he said his parents really hate me and they act nice when im around but when im not i guess they talk crap about me? i really cant understand why, its mainly his mom, i say hello to her and offer to help with stuff. My boyfriend thinks its because she is blaming the fact that he has bad grades on me? but my boyfriend has had bad grades since before we went out and i don't even have any classes with him so i know im not effect him and he said so himself i wasn't the reason, he just doesn't do anything. His mom lets his little 13 year old sister go out and hang out with her boyfriend all the time she just wont let him hang out with me.. i really cant think of anything why she could hate me i didn't do anything wrong? How can i get her to like me or at least approve of her sons relationship with me??
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well, i would have to agree with jessica. it is about you and your boyfriend. Maybe they favor his sister cuz shes younger. His parents will have to accept you sooner or later, and if not, then at least you and your boyfriend are happy. dont stress over it hun its okay. my parents hated my sisters boyfriend and she did not care. she is just happy that her and her boyfriend are inseparable. and now that they've been goin out for a while, they have actually come to like him. they just have to get to know you more
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okay. first sweetie. take a deep breath. trust me you are not alone. my boyfriends parents also, hate me. the thing you have to accept is that all that matters is your boyfriend, parents likeing you is just a bonus. i know that its hard to accept, but the fact is they may never approve of you. I would like very much so for my boyfriends parents to accept me, but they dont, and i cant change how they feel, so i just move on, and focus on the fact that my relationship is about me and him, not me, him, and his family. you are doing the best that you can, and being polite and yourself is all that you can do. also try asking your boyfriend to talk to his parents about the way that they are treating you, but be prepared for the answer, we dont hate her. i hope i helped some.
feel free to ask me anything else.
-jessicamarie.
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