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Is there a way I can tell if my 15 year old daughter has had
My daughter just turned 15 her boyfriend is 15 also. They have been together for 4 months. Hes at my house every day since they started dating,I very rarely leave them alone together,if I do its for a very short time. When he's here they snuggle and kiss alot they hardly ever h.u. Also I can see them from the room there in so they dont really have much privacy Anyway thru the grapevine I heard he was a virgin before they started dating.Don't ask! My daughter dumped her last bf of almost a year because he started pressuring her for sex. I know she gave her last bf a bj and possibly someother kid but I think thats all. I know how she behaved as far as affection with the last bf,she occasionally initiated it butnot usually. But with this bf shes actually initiates it and personallyI think shes kind of aggressive with it. Just the way she touches him (running her fingers thru his hair for example)makes me think she might not be a virgin anymore. I mean its hard to describe but how they touch each other is so intimate (not sexually)that I really believe that they have had intercourse. I really need to know because I want her to go on birth control if she is sexually active and of course use condoms.Btw I have told BOTH of them that if they ever decided to go all the way I would want her to talk to me about getting birth control. Oh also his mom had him when she was like 15 or 16 and I reaaly dont think he wants to take a chance on having a kid this young. at least thats what he says. I asked a few of there friends about his past relationships and why they didnt work out. and I was told by quite a few ppl that he dumped one because she wanted to have sex.I also heard this about him way before she ever hung out with him,that relationship was like a year ago. and the other 2 gf he had cheated on him with his bestfriend. so its not like hes a player or anything. But anybody looking at him can tell hes seriously in love with my daughter. I think she loves him too but this all doesnt mean that they went all the way does it? Are there any signs that I could notice between them to tell? help!!!
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You remind me a lot of my own mom. I was 14, almost 15 when I lost my virginity to my current boyfriend, only he's older than me. My mom suspected we had had sex, and even though we hadn't, we had been thinking about it. So I agreed to get put on it. We were both virgins too. I had never done anything sexual, but he had. I suggest asking her to get put on birth control. You can say that you want her to do it for your own piece of mind.
I can't speak for your daughter on whether or not she has had sex, but I can say once you put her on birth control, you should give her a little privacy. She's a teenager now, and if you trust her, and you trust this boy, you owe it to them to show a little respect. Not to much, just a little bit =] This coming from a teen of course.
I also think you owe it to your daughter to not be so nosy in her life. I don't know what I wouuld do if my mom was asking my friends and my boyfriend's friends questions. If you want to know something, you should ask the boy up front, or most importantly, ask your daughter. <3
Good Luck <3
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