|
summer friendships broken?
School just ended for me so summer is officially in session. I'm a little depressed because I won't see any of my new made friends over the 3 month summer vacation, which is why I usually loathe the long break from school. Anyway, to the point. There's a guy in particular who I became fast friends with, but it seems that once school ended, so did our friendship. i really like him and one of my friends suggested i tell him that I've liked him for as long as I have. But I'm not so sure since school's out and I won't see him. I don't want things to get awkward but then everything changes over summer, so I'm not sure. One of my friends (not very close) posted pictures up of a brithday party he was at and he seemed so happy with the few people that were there (him and about 4 girls and 5 guys) so I don't wnat to ruin anything.
Well, that's long and probably a "classic" question but I'd appreciate the advice.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
What makes you so sure that the friendship is over? Just because you like him doesn't mean that the friendship is over. He may have feelings for you as well or he may not.
If he's got other friends, doesn't mean that your friendship is over. Why don't you just step off into the deep end and see what happens. To be quite fair, you'll never know as to how he may react to you. If it doesn't work out, then all should go back to the way things were. You'll only being truthful to yourself.
I know what it's like to have feelings for somebody but not wanting to ruin their own life with our feelings. But stupidly, I didn't say anything that now the person whom I liked is now with somebody else and that truely did break my heart. I've felt the sting of heartbreak and I don't want to see other realtionships which could work out never happen.
Take a leap of faith and see how it goes.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
]
More Questions: |