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vvhat do i do vvith my boyfriend?
Hi my name is jackie.
i've been dating my boyfriend since september and i used to be head over heals for him..vve broke up for a vvhile.. and then novv vve have been together for four months. he never used to act like i vvas his girlfriend. Ex. in school he didnt kiss me hug me or hold my hand. i started to think he vvas embarrassed of me.. he recently started actually "liking" me & doing all of that stuff.. but novv im thinking tvvice and he is leaving for the marines this summer and i dont vvant to get realy close to him because he is just going to leave.. i am too scared to break up vvith him because ive liked him since i vvas a little girl & novv that i have him im not sure that vvas such a good idea..
this has been stressing me out alott lately.. please help? im 15/f and he is 17 almost 18
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Sounds like he is growing up or maybe he is just starting to get used to PDA, some boys don't like PDA at all, not because they don't like their girlfriend but just because they aren't comfortable with it. It may be that he is leaving soon and he wants to make the best of the time you have together.
You shouldn't let him leaving effect your relationship and your feelings for him. If you really like him and think there may be a future then I say you should stick with it, but if you feel as though you don't care about him in the way that will lead to a future together then let him go. Don't be afraid of commitement but don't be afraid of letting him go either.Figure out how you really feel about him and then go from there.
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It sounds like he's starting to mature a little and appreciate you more since he is leaving in a few months. Which is good, but he shouldn't have to have that kind of motivation to treat you right.
If you don't want to get close to him, then don't. Like you said, he's leaving in a couple months. Just tell him you want to be friends. I know that the concept of breaking up is scary, but you're young. You'll meet lots of other potential boyfriends before you know it. I know that sounds cliche, but it's true. The fact is, if he is stressing you out, he is not worth being with. Listen to your gut. If something doesn't feel right, then nothing is.
P.S. I would really appreciate it if you used a "w" instead of a "vv" in the future. It's really hard to read. I'm sure other columnists would appreciate it as well. :)
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