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mr right
So does love happen when you are not even thinking about it. I mean I see a lot of people that have love in their life and I wonder how did they get there? Is it all really planned out or do those people look for love? I just want to know if it's ever gonna happen to me? I'm tired of waiting for mr.right. I'm starting to think that he's not real. Maybe for other girls. not for me. I dont feel right going out with all the guys i have went out with. It seems to me that no guy out there is for me. No guys seems right. Everyone is just ugh! I dont know what to do anymore. please help...
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Love is an interesting animal.
Honest answer, the easiest way to find love is not to look for it.
I say this because, simply put, you are compatible with a finite number of people in the world you exist in, and if you are looking for love then you stand a much higher chance of ending up with people who you aren't really compatible with.
This happens because you keep ending up with other people who are also looking for love, and both of you are willing to settle for something less in the chance that "this might be the one"
For me, love is like finding the other half of you you didn't know you were missing. A part of your life inseparable from the other parts. Someone you cant imagine your day without, imagine going to sleep without her next to you, imagine staying up late watching Showtime series on our futon together without her, etc. etc.
She belongs. Its that feeling of right you have been searching for. And its the mutual recognition of that right.
And things like this have a way of just wandering in out of left field to smack you in the face. Every decent relationship I've ever had came along when I wasnt so lonely that I was out searching for someone to be with.
Its also worth noting that generally when you look for love, you alter your normal life to try to find it.
And by altering your normal life, you are basically changing your life to try to find people who arent really compatible with your normal life, because they arent IN it.
And I think I've said this before, but
"So how does it happen, great love? Nobody knows... but what I can tell you is that it happens in the blink of an eye. One moment you're enjoying your life, and the next you're wondering how you ever lived without them."
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