I pierced my own ears about a week ago and hid them for up to now. I want to tell her, because I have done this before on my earlobes, and she wasnt too mad, but she did specifically tell me not to do my cartilage (which I pierced). If I tell her, I don't think she'll get too mad, but I just don't know how to come about telling her. So how should I do it? It's not exactly a friendly dinner conversation...
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? kittaytoro answered Tuesday May 27 2008, 3:27 pm: She'll probably get angry to the same extent, regardless as to where you are, so that much probably shouldn't matter. While it's not 'friendly dinner conversation', that's probably where I'd reccomend it, more than anything else.
If you're not comfortable with that, however, I'd say to do it some time after dinner, when everyone is relaxed and ready to go to bed. Just try either flat out coming out with it, or saying something like "Anything look different lately?". It may put a lighter mood on things. Just say you're really sorry, and you knew you weren't supposed to, but that you went through with it anyway. Explain that you'll understand if she's angry.
Just make sure you're MATURE about this. Technically, you went against her word, but if you go at this in a mature way, she'll probably not get as angry, and even understand.
Cmilner1607 answered Monday May 26 2008, 10:08 pm: well this situation is going to be hard anytime you tell her, just come out with it. hiding it for a little isn't bad, just don't lie to her about it. she could make you take it out though, so you might want to put that into consideration. [ Cmilner1607's advice column | Ask Cmilner1607 A Question ]
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