how do i turn him on just useing my body? i can turn him on but hes always the one to start rubbing and kissing when we are in bed. i dont do it first b/c i dont feel like i turn him on
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? GilbertMar answered Thursday May 22 2008, 2:51 pm: A common problem with women, the thought you don't turn him on. Men won't take a second look at a woman who doesn't turn him on in some way. Look for subtle signs, where does he start when he rubs you, the first thing he goes for is normally what he likes. He goes for your breasts, he is a breast man, he goes for your butt, he is a butt man. He will not always go for what he like first, but most of the time he will.
Get rid of your inhibitions if you want to turn him on and wiggle the parts he likes in a way that he knows your doing it for him. Flash him when he doesn't expect it, or moon, (drop your pants and show him your rear, in case you don't understand the slang) him out of the blue. Be play full and say, look at this and suddenly show him a quick flash of your bare breast in places he least expects it, but don't get yourself arrested, look around a bit, make sure your safe, yet daring.
What you feel is probably partly correct. If you don't take an active part in the prelims of sex and show that you want it and him, you are probably not turning him on as much as he would like you too. Women should play an active roll in foreplay, not just expect the man to turn you and himself on, don't just lay there, become a part of it.
He more then likely is wondering if he turns you on, because he is always the one starting it. Start slow, don't over do it, teasing is an art, but one women can do oh so well. [ GilbertMar's advice column | Ask GilbertMar A Question ]
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