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Question Posted Thursday May 22 2008, 12:45 am

So I really really like this girl, but she has me eating out of her hand. I can't stop, she's a master of manipulation. Or maybe I'm just nuts about her. Any thoughts that could help me out?

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PhilIvey answered Thursday May 22 2008, 12:46 am:
One of three things is going to happen to you.

1) You will continue to fall head over heels for girls before they fall for you, and sometimes even when they dont. Girls like this will use you and discard you until you are bitter and so emotionally armored that you have difficulty with relationships for the rest of your life because of your deep seated inability to trust women you like.

2) You will be pushed past a point of anger with a girl and will focus all of negative emotions on her and completely blow up. You will be angry and distant with relationships, which ironically stands a chance of making you better with the ladies. Your ability to not give a shit the way you used to will attract women who want to "tame the beast".

3) You will become angry with yourself for letting people treat you like crap all the time. This will either result in suicide or serious self examination and positive changes to your demeanor and behavior.

Actually, you'll probably just keep making this mistake until youre like 25, and you'll either find a girl who treats you right by chance, or you'll end up with a domineering bitch who refuses to let go of her hold on you and you'll end up married either way.

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