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i rhink i am inlove with my best friend.
well everytime i see him just sitting there or we are talking i always just want to hold him or for him to hold me, or just to lie on his chest. i dont really have butterflies in my stomach when i see him. i dont know if i am really inlove with him or if i just miss having a boyfriend. i dont really want to go out with him because if it does not work our friendship might also be ruined or we will feel uncomfortable around eachother. what should i do and what is this that i feel?
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How does your best friend see you? Do you think he feels more like a brother than a potential partner? It is possible for friends to take their relationship further and for it to work. Why not suggest going out for dinner one night (dutch) and start talking about your feelings. Tell him how important he is to you and how you enjoy him being in your life - then listen to how he responds to you. If you think that he feels more about you then take another little step in that direction. As long as you don't go barging in declaring your undying love, there is a possibility that you could make it work, but as you pointed out that if it doesn't work you could end up losing this friendship.
Again, there is the possibility that you feel lost without a boyfriend and are just looking for a stop-gap. Don't go there if that is the case - go out and look for someone more suitable.
Whatever way this goes I wish you all the best but my watchword is slow. Take care.
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