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why is he doing this?


Question Posted Monday May 19 2008, 5:38 pm

i am 15 year old girl and i want to know if he is using me for sex or what you think i have not been with him long about 2 weeks and he has already brought up sex and has said that he dont use comdoms and that, i have told him that i am going to make him wait and that if he wants me for me then hes got to prove it. i feel hes only with me when he wants to and when i want him there he dont answer my phone calls but he says he didnt hear it or left it at home, i know hes not cheating on me because he sits in his mates house with no girls there but i dont know what to do help please x

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AskKay23 answered Monday May 19 2008, 6:05 pm:
Trust your instinct- you already have the idea in your head that he may be using you. I suggest that you follow that because you're gut is always right.

If he's always bringing up sex, and you have to question his motives, then there's a clear reason or that. He in it for more than just your mind. =( I know it hurts to hear it, but it sounds to me like you may already know that.

You sound like a smart girl, and I think it's great that your holding off and respecting yourself. You don't want to regret any decisions that you make- so don't do anything you're heart doesn't agree with.

Let me know how it goes!

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