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dont no wheter to give up on a guy or to keep trying
I've liked this kid since i was in 8th grade im in 11th grade now. Well back in 9th grade i started to talk to him ( hes 4 years older) i was so nervous i made up a name and everything cause i didnt think hed like me. well he found out who i actually was and was nice about it but then we stopped talking. but just recently he messaged me and weve been talking hes asked me out a couple times but i havent been able to hang out. well my parents are now out of town and i told him he should come over sometime and was like ok but didnt say anything else its been 4 days and i havent heard anything from him i imed him last night leaving a flirty message but he never answered me back should i give up on him or keep trying this guy means more to me then anyone i met before i gave up a trip to florida and a tom petty concert hoping hed come over this week but hasnt =(
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Fact of life, guys aren't as intuitive as you'd like them to be. My best advice here, to be short and sweet about it, is to openly ask him to come over one night. He said ok when you suggested it, so he obviously wants to, but, much like my ex, he probably doesn't want to invite himself over. Just ask. The worst you can get is no, and then you can move on from there.
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I'm not going to say that you should completely "give up" on this guy, because I know that's easier said than done. However, I'd let him make the next move. You've mentioned him coming over and IMed him so now it's his turn to make an effort. Pursuing him too much could make you seem desperate and scare him away. Hope this helped. Good luck!
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