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FORBIDDEN FRUIT
ok there is this guy i like and he is currently in a relationship. the only reason he is in the relationship is because he was forced into it because no other girls liked him. when shes not around he constantly flirts with me and is all touchy and stuff. in general he is a flirty guy. his relationship with his girlfriend in kind on the rocks because she tells her friends that she hates him but then the next day she loves him. he does not really pay attention to her when i am around. they dont seem to have a strong relationship like before. how can i figure out if he likes me? also how do i know if he is going to break up with his girlfriend and how much longer it is going to last? and how can i get his attention towards me and not to his slut bag girlfriend who still feeling for her ex.
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Well, it seems as if you've already got his attention from what you've said. I mean he flirts with you and pays hardly any attention to his girlfriend when you're around him.
As for his girlfriend, it seems to me that she isn't sure whether she loves him or not. Sometimes you just don't know what you feel for another person and sometimes you feel as if that the only way for you to find out would be to go out with that guy. But even then that doesn't work! I think that she's trying to convince herself that she loves him, even thought another part of her is telling her that she isn't. Kinda complicated but it makes sense once you think about it.
Now for you, be paitient. Breakups could happen at any time, there is no way to predict when a break up is about to occur unless you get premonitions (!). You've already got his attention, you just need to wait for the break-up. BUT don't go out with him straight away. His current girlfriend may get some shock when they break-up and if she finds out that you're going out with him already and knowing that he didn't really care would be heatbreaking for her. So just wait for a while after the break up.
BUT if he wants to go out with you before then, say no and tell him that he needs to break up with his current girlfriend. It's not nice to find out that you've been cheated on (from a girlfriend's point of view). It's not being mean, just being considerate to the other girl, no matter as to what you think of her.
I hope this helped,
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