i have been with my boyfriend since last july we first just started to fool around basically then we gaiend more interest by the end of july and were together. he did live right by me but in september he moved back home about an hour away from me. id visit weekends and we`d either stay at a hotel or his house when his parents wernt there ( i didnt want to meet them because of my age and they didnt allow us to sleep in the same room together, still dont) when i visited, we would have fun and lots of sex for that night or two, which is so different from now. the last few months whenever i go dont he never wants to, sometimes we dont even, if i am lucky we will have sex once that weekend. everyone is saying he just might not be interested or is cheating. and im thinking they are right. we have had a threesome before and it didnt bring us closer. he seems just to not be interested at all, but he says he is. i always go there weekends and i feel he doesnt even appreciate it anymore, he just legit sits there and plays video games for hours and i sit in the bed till we go to bed. i love him and it used to be so great i dont know what to do. p.s i am moving down there in august
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MiCheLLeKaYLa06 answered Monday May 12 2008, 6:16 pm: talk to him about it. Tell him you really dont feel like he wants you or the sex anymore.
You may also want to just lay off of sex just a little bit, having too much sex can kinda ruin a relationship...because sometimes your partner could feel thats all you want.
Tell him you want to do stuff besides watch him play video games.
The best thing to do is next time you're with him explain things..like how you feel, etc. I suggest you do it with him this way no one can hang up or set the phone down, plus maybe afterwards you can have make-up sex. :p
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B00TSZ answered Monday May 12 2008, 12:10 am: sounds like you guys are married now.....
id say either hes getting sick of you(or the sex) or the sex isnt an important part of the relationship to him...just like married couples.
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