I live in KY, but my dad lives in IN and i visit him every 6 weeks, and there is a boy there that is friends with my brother. Well this boy got into a fight because some kid was going to stab him, so now he is grounded and his brother, who helped him, is in a detention center. I know it sounds bad, but i dont really think so.
And he has a gf...but from what i hear he really likes me, like a lot, and wants to hang out with me this summer. And people are telling me that because he thinks im cute and stuff and he has a gf he is a player, but i dont neccersarily think so.
So my questions:
1--Do you think he is a player??
2--What should i do about this situation??
And please dont tell me that i need to leave him alone if he has a gf because i know that and im not gonna do it..i dont play that game...or say that its long distance or anything like that...i know its hard but chances are if anything were to happen it would be for three weeks only..while im there..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xxDearLee answered Sunday May 11 2008, 2:03 pm: Well, I like to think that we cant control who we have feelings for. Its like pretty much our instinct!
And just because he happens to like two girls at the same time doesnt make him a player. Psht I cant think of a guy who isnt like that. Crazzzy, right? Lol.
But Id definitely send some signs, little hints of how you feel and take note of his reactions. Tease each other a bit! Just wait and see. Its hard not to be impatient, though, I know...but it might be worth it.
And if you really cant wait just take the plunge. Keep an eye on the two to see if anythings going on if YOU two get it on. Curiosity might have killed the cat, but paranoia ran it over. If that makes sense.? [ xxDearLee's advice column | Ask xxDearLee A Question ]
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