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ugh, boy problems, two exs. f/13.
uhm.
before i start
bc means because.
&&
w/e means whatever
just stating that...
mmkay.
ugh,
okay. so i have an ex let's call him D. and another ex, let's call him J.
okay, so i hung out with D todayy, and made outwith him, like i do alot, when i went out with him.
=D
okay, but when i got home, J called me, and asked me out, i said noo.
he had broke up with me, bc he thought i still liked D. i told him i didn't but w/e.
truth is, i still like D. and when i make out with him, and hang out with him. [[which is all the time]] memories come flowing back.
today, i got quiet while we were hanging out, and he asked what was wrong, and i told him nothing. he gave me a big hug, told me that i could tell him if anything was wrong, and i told him nothing was wrong, after about 10 more minutes of silence, and him carrying me, he asked me again, and i said i was thinking about things. and he asked what things, i told him stuff. so he gives me a hug, and i tell i have to go, he hugs me and i leave,
i think he still likes me,
but idk,
=/
help.
what should i do about D.
we still act like we go out
he says i love you
and i ask how, he says "as a friend..." after i don't say it back.
with some sadness in his voice.
he's my best friend, i tell him everything.
ilove him.
what do i do about him.
and J.
bc J keeps asking me out,
what do i do.
about D and J ???
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Well, it sounds to me like you still like D. Anytime there are hearts on the line you gotta realize someone's probably gonna get hurt. It's part of life. J broke up with you because he thought you still liked D, and he's probably right. You didn't mention anything up there about liking J, all you told me was about making out with D"=D", and how you and D connect and all this positive stuff. It sounds to me, if you're acting like you're still together, that you might as well rekindle the relationship.
Tell J that you're sorry, but you just don't feel that way about him (anymore), and that it's nothing against him, or it has nothing to do with him. It just isn't a good time for the two of you.
That's the gentlest way to let someone down, I think.
Good luck!
-Siren =)
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