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okay , so you know how sometimes you get feelings and like no one can change your mind?? like a pathological fear. You cant be talked out of it. Well i have one of those feelings about this boy. He lives in IN but i live in KY but i go up every 6 weeks, this summer for 3 weeks.
You see he thinks im cute and everything, but he has a girlfriend, (which i know IS wrong, but yeah i wouldnt do that to someone). But he got put on quarintine at his house and he is on like lockdown because him and his brother (18 that got put in a detention center) got in a fight because some kid pulled a knife on him and was going to stab him. So this summer we was supposed to hang out and people say oh he is a player bc he likes you while he has a gf, but i dont think thats true. I just feel like i know him, and I mean, i dont know i just get this feeling, i cant really explain it. I just i dont know, can you help me??
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alright. I know how your feeling. Just because someone likes you while they have agirlfriend doesnt make them a player. Chances are he could be falling for you. But you can't make a move you have to let him do it first. Cause he's the one with a previous relationship. its common for someone to be in this position. Me being one myself. But all you can really do is wait for him. you can't change how your mind thinks, attraction is all chemical in your brain. You could gave two people with the same traits but be attracted to obemire over the other. You could try to convince yourself that you dont like them but that wouldnt be being truthful to yourself. There isnt much you can donut hope he has the same feelings for you. Any help or unanswered questions. You know who to ask ;-) good luck rentfanatc
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He has a girlfriend. Leave him alone.
1) It's a long distance relationship and you're not in a position to handle it.
2) It's a long distance relationship and it doesn't sound like he's in a position to handle it.
3) You, like many people your age these days (not your fault as you've not been raised any different), seem to have an issue with integrity and honesty.
Be honest with yourself. Now be more honest with yourself. Now be even MORE honest with yourself.
Keep it up and apply it to those around you as well. Keep it up for a year and you won't need to ask questions like this one. :)
I know from personal experience that it is extremely difficult to understand this type of advice from your current position. I assure you that you need only make the decision to do it and stick to it, even after failures. Persistence is the key to happiness in this endeavor.
Everyone always says "The truth shall set you free", let me tell you that it is often extremely difficult to do and that the rewards are much greater for doing it than you can possibly imagine.
I wish you much determination on your journey as you have many tough and richly rewarding times ahead of you.
-- Stay Honest
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