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I love him...but...
Okay, so I love this guy so much. I love being with him. It's just that sometimes, I don't feel...I dunno, worthy of him. He's just so great at everything it seems and I wonder every day how he can even bring himself to look at me, let alone date me. I really don't know what to do because I've never really felt that great about myself so I really don't understand how he can like me. So then I always think that he's lying and he doesn't truly like me, because what's to like?
But really, he's so wonderful at everything he does and I just get so intimidated by that because I'm not so great at anything.
I'm clumsy, strange sometimes, weirdly smart, quiet and shy. He's a little shy too but he can at least hold a conversation without being an idiot, then he's an athlete and a musician. I'm musical too, but not anywhere near as great as he is. And on top of all that, he's so attractive it almost kills me inside.
I guess all I want to know is how I can overcome these feelings, or if my feelings are justified considering I'm nowhere near as great as he is anyway.
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first off... he is dating you which means he likes you. guys don't stay with people they don't like and they won't hesitate to say so. so don't worry about whether or not he likes you because he wouldn't be wasting time with you if he didn't.
and you might be intimidated but you need to stop competing with him. he has things he's really good at as do you. basically you need to be happy when you're with him, which it seems you are, and enjoy the time you spend with him instead of thinking about how he can date you and how he's better than you at certain things. you're only wasting time if thats what you're thinking about.
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I think your problem is that you are almost jealous. You feel very insecure, since you think that he will be gone within an instant because you don't think you are worthy.
I am a guy, and I personally don't care what a girl looks like, its all about how they are as a person that matters. If you are a bitch, then he might have a reason to hate you, but guys tend to like the girls that are quiet and mysterious. Guys don't care what the girl can or cannot do. Just be yourself.
It seems to me that you are in highschool too. Highschool isn't a place to be looking for a husband. It is a place to explore the type of person that you like so that when you eventually meet that perfect someone you will know.
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