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Okay I have this MAJOR crush on this guy but he moved away last semester. We talk on the messanger (msn) all the time. I've told my bff that I like him. But she flirts with him (online) ALL the time. She knows I am in love with him. Yet she's acting like they're married. She ALWAYS descides the guys I like she likes! What do I do? Confront her about this. Or ignore it. I still wanna be friends
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defineetly comfront her. tell her before you say anything that she needs to know that your not just saying this and that you don't want to ruin your friendship ith her. make sure she knows that you liked him first and that you don't feel right that she flirtts with im. she may play it off with saying that it's just over messenger but tell her that it still hurts you and mkaes you upset. make sure you tell her everything. best of luck.
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One thing people commonly forget in love-triangle situations like this is that the guy has free will too. In the end, whoever this guy ends up with isn't entirely your decision or entirely your bff's decision. He has a say in who he dates, so she's only "stealing your man" if he lets himself be stolen away. And in that case, you're probably better off without him anyway.
That said, I wouldn't advise competing with your friend over this guy, especially since he's already moved away. I don't know how far he moved, but it's it's far enough that it's likely you won't see him again then there's little point in persuing a relationship with him.
However, do confront your friend about this. A good friend would take stuff like this into account before before doing what she's doing. Keep in mind that from her point of view, her role and your role are reversed. To her, YOU'RE probably the one stealing HER man.
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omg!! i went through the same thing. you should definitly say something to her. tell her to back off your man. lol. oh and if this guy really likes you he wont want anything to do with your friend...relationship wise. :) DEFINATLY confront her.
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