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i think im gay
m/16
ok so i think i fell in love with a guy. he's one of those emo guys and wears black eyeliner but he's straight tho. hes really nice and cool but he has no friends accept me because im the only one being nice to him. so yesterday i was sick and he came over to check if im alright and told me what the hw was. and he sat on my bed and we talked alot. andi just cant help but falling for him. hes just amazing. and i dont even understand because im sure ive naver liked a guy before and i cant imagine liking another guy but him. so he forgot his key and his parents are gone so i offered him to stay over. nothing happened of course but i stared at him the whole night and everytime i see him i get nervous and feel like throwing up. i know hes not gay. i just dont know what to do becaause i dont wanna be gay either. my parents would kill me but on the other hand i jzst wann abe with him. i dont know what to do.
please help
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I can totally relate. My parents HATE that I am a bisexual, but I am anyway. It is who I am, and they can get over it. Also, there a few guys I wouldn't mind dating, but they are straight. You just have to be open with your sexuality, and maybe they will actually like you too. Some guys are jsut really nervous about that kind of thing, and get all hot and bothered when someone says they are gay or a gay guy is hitting on them. Actually, a few guys who are bi/gay will do this to cover up that they really are. He might be gay, but just not be comfortable telling you. Just find out how he feels about the topic, tell him how you feel (be EXTREMELY careful about this), and maybe he will like you too. Let me know how it goes. Hope this helps.
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first of all, dont let any outside influences affect you when you're considering your sexuality. i'm talking about your parents, peers, the media, whatev. because, if you think you might be gay, well then you just might be gay. it dosnt make sense to say, "i have tendancies towards my own gender... but my parents would kill me if im gay. so im not." you're not gay or straight because other people do or dont want you to, you're gay because of your own thoughts, emotions and feelings.
also, about never having liked a guy before: alot of psycologists who study this kind of stuff would say that if you rated your sexuality on a scale of 1 to 10, you'd be somwhere in between. research sigmund freud... he would say that a 1 or a 10 is extremely rare. so yeah, everybody's got a bit of homosexual woven into our very complex personalities. its really likely that you just really like him in a friend kind of way and really want to get to know him better.
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