My ex boyfriend is in the same group of friends as I am, and we see each other everyday. We dated for about six months, but then I liked another guy. And he found out, and we broke up. We fought all the time after that, about everything. Eventually we did try going back out again, but I broke up with him again because I thought I might have only gotten back together with him because I wanted to end the problems, not because I wanted to be with him. Now he says he won't talk to me, and wants to stay out of my life. He was one of my best friends, and I miss him so much. It's hard to see him every single day and know that he hates me. He thinks I lied to him about things, when I didn't. But he won't believe me. He says that he doesn't trust me enough to ever believe me, or think that I'll change. He just says I'll screw things up again. How can I get him to see that I truly am sorry for hurting him, and get him to believe me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cloudy_conscience answered Friday May 2 2008, 5:38 pm: Well when you hurt someone, especially more than once, it can be very difficult to get that trust back and usually even if you do things will never be the same. I dated a boy for 3 years then we broke up and we are still friends, but we can't hang out much because of my new boyfriend and things really aren't the way they used to be. First of all you can talk to him and let him know how sorry you really are and how much you really want to move on and be friends again. If that doesn't work then maybe just try to be nice to him when you see him and try to show him that you want to be friends with him. I really hope you get him back and you can be friends again =].
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