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i was the girl with the boyfriend who has pictures of his ex girlfriends and has cheated on me.
i still think about the cheating today and i dont even hang out with my friends because im afraid that if i leave this boy alone that he will cheat again and i will be SOL. i dont want to be hurt again and if he cheats on me again i will have to leave him... i truly do love him. your telling me that your boyfriend cheated on you and you believed that it wouldnt happen again and then it did 4 years later? because if thats true then everything i believed in isnt true. i thought that if i could make this kid love me and be with me for years then there is no way that he could cheat on me again. i love this boy so much and we have been together for years. i dont know what to do. secretly i want him to screw up and cheat so that i have a reason to break it off..
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No, what I meant is I was with him for 4 years altogether. I had actually already been with him for 1 and a half years when I found out he had cheated on me the first time. It seemed like I had been with him for so long and I loved him so much and I believed he loved me too. (Which I still believe he did) So I gave him another chance and convinced myself to trust him again. It was probably about 8-9 months before he did it again. Then the whole scene happened again and again I forgave him. The next time he cheated on me was after I wound up pregnant.
I dont know your guy so there's no way I can say for sure. Just from my experience and observations over the years lead me to believe there are two types of guys in this world. The kind who cheat, and the kind who don't. I don't think guys cheat because they don't love the girl their with. I think they cheat because it's a charachter flaw that is just in them. Cause even still I believe he loved me completely it's just that his love wasn't the kind I could live with. There are some women that can deal with sharing their man or looking past his cheating I'm not one of those women.
As for you not even leaving him alone with other girls because you can't trust him. That say's alot. If you don't trust him how can you build a life with him?? I think deep down you know the answer to your dilema better than you want to admit. Write back if you need any more advice. Take Care and Good Luck.
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