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HE WONT LEAVE ME ALONE!
omg this is sooo annoying. ok so iwent out with this guy and we were happy for like a aweek then i broke up with him like 4 weeks ago and we use to be best friends and whenwe broke up he was saying how heart broken he was. well even now he will email me saying how he screwed up. he obsesses over stuff and im really tired of it. and i dont want to hurt him more than i already did. hes to where he is asking my friends to ask about me and stuff. and he like never leaves me alone. its kinda creepy. i mean sometimes i think he might hurt himself.. and he said he thinks he loves me so.... i NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Tell your parents about what he is doing as well as your teacher to make them aware of it. Have your parents tell him (or through his parents) that he's not welcome at your home, stop bothering you at school and that you don't want to be his friend/girlfriend and it won't change.
Document all his IMs and e-mails so that your parents can be aware of what he is saying about how screwed up he is and that he'll hurt himself. They can deal with it. They can also have him charged with harassment if his behavior keeps escalating and you feel uncomfortable at home/school or on the Internet.
Let's say he hurt himself which would be a horrible thought/thing it wouldn't be your fault no matter what he say/anyone else might. You can't control his actions and stupid choices or impulses. It's not your problem to deal with. You're guilt free.
This kid seems to have a lot of issues be they mental or behavioral and needs help from adults. He likely has nobody at all but you to talk to, be friends with or date. Even still when you tell him how it is he doesn't get it. If an adult lays things straight for him he'll likely never talk to or bother you again. He has to lay off by law by the way.
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