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okay, so i like this guy...and he likes me...trust me i know. okay so anyway, lately, ive been kind of boerd with life, you know like tierd of doing the same thing over and over and over and over again. but supposivly this guy is going to ask me out. i like him and all but i don't really want to go out with him. like i don't know why. but anyway, i just don't think that we would last long...or that hes my ticket to excitement. i have a lot of personal problems i think that i should deal with first. what do you think? am i making a mistake? he isn't that hot. if that helps...
please help!!
thanks in adcanceee!
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This is rather simple really, if you don't want to go out with him then don't. Try hanging out as friends first and if things go well there and you want to move on to the next level then let him know. Don't say yes unless you really want to go out with him and give him a chance. Remember looks aren't everything, looks without personality is like peanut butter without jelly.
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If any part of you has doubts about dating this guy, then of course you shouldn't go out with him. If he does ask you out, just tell him everything you told us: a relationship isn't something you want to deal with while you still have personal issues.
It doesn't matter if you think it will be a mistake or not. If part of you doesn't want to do it, then you shouldn't As long as he's understanding, the two of you can still be friends.
If you're so bored with life, get out there and try new things. Join a new club. Introduce yourself to new people. Take up a new hobby. Along the way, you might meet a new guy that you're interested in. Someone that you'd actually be excited to go out with. THAT'S the guy you want to wait for.
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