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Confused?
16/F
If you could really help me that would be amazing, cause i have really hit rock bottom.
Okay so im a freshman in high school, and over the summer i met a Junior that goes to my school. We had a thing over the summer (2007), and well into the school year. We would hang out and hook up and everything seemed great. Before him i was in very serious relationship for about a year 1/2. When i met this other guy he was about the only one who i let myself open up to. Well at homecoming everything changed and he told me he didn't want to fool around anymore and that since we wern't even dating it wasn't like we were breaking up. I got really hurt and cryed all night. After that night me and him never talked, and eventually never talked... ever and would occasionally would see each other in the hallways. Well its been that way for about 3 or 4 months. I eventually became really good friends with his best friend, and he likes me and i kinda like him, but i dont have all the feelings im looking for. He asked me to prom, and we went 2 days ago. Well my "he" was there, and we all danced and everything, i had a lot of fun and we talked a WHOLE lot. We have been texting a lot and he told me that my hair looked good, and we should go shopping, and today a bunch of our friends went to lunch including me and him, and he said that being in the car with me and everyone and how nice it was today that it reminded him of summer and how we all hung out..... I don't really know what to make of everything because i still like him... a lot, and everytime im around him im afraid to say the wrong thing and i get butterflys in my stomach. I just don't know if he likes me again, if theres even a little chance, and i don't want to get my hopes up, getting all exicted he likes me again only to find out he dosen't and i was over reacting over exictment. i just need some help. If you cant help me understand any of this that would be great. please.
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I think that you should just stay on a friendly level with him for now. I know that you still have feelings for him and its really hard to let that go even after many months. But you are right to want to protect yourself. Just try not to be nervous around him as hard as it may seem. What i mean is you should always try to be yourself and don't change anything about who you are. I am sure that you are a great and amazingly fun person to hang out with. I think that since you haven't spoken to him for so long then its important to rebuild that friendship that you once had. I think people can change a lot in the course of many months and maybe you guys can start over since you obviously aren't the same people anymore. Don't expect him to like you back but don't be afraid to go for it. I know heartbreak all too well and I have had so much of it, but the thing i learned is that when you are happy, then no matter what happens you will not be defeated. I hope that this turns out well for you, but if it doesn't work out then you will be okay. Just don't let anything bring you down, no matter what happens you will have learned something from this. I am going through some issues with a guy i like too right now. But I think that you should just be you, maybe flirt a little, because it works, and if he still doesn't like you after all of this, then he really isn't worth it. I know you probably hear this advice all the time but i think it's true.
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