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problem with balancing my life
15/f/sophomore
ok my main hobbies are drawing, writing stories, playing an instrument, playing 2 sports, friends, family, school, and playing online games.
the problem is..I CANT BALANCE IT ALL! like one week-month i might be soo focused on reading then ill be like, omg im reading so much crap then i get lonely and i try harder with my friends then one day i might go and see a really great drawing and ill get all obsessed and then neglect everything else. then about a month later ill be depressed again. then the cycle repeats
like i cant make myself happy. whenever i get too focused (as in borderline obsessed) on any one hobby i always neglect friends/family and the other hobbies i like to do, and vice versa. i cant find a happy medium and im just upset. i want to accomplish things in all my hobbies but i cant make myself stick with one thing for long enough. and i cant even talk about it to my friends b/c my friends see me as an amazing sports kinda girl when inside im such a nerd. a nerd who happens to be on the varsity lacrosse team. sometimes i lie to my friends and say im going out of state on weekends just so i can have some computer time.
its like i have 2 personalities, "cool sports girl" and "anime loving nerd" im sick of leading a double life.
how do i balance my life out more so i can spend time doing EVERYTHING i love to do equally?
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It seems to me like you need to get your prioities straight. So the first things i reccomend you doing is maybe write down a schedule like say first things first get your homework done then set an hour aday for your writing then an hour for your drawing and freinds and family and so on and so forth of course i dont think an hour for everything would work because it seems like theres not enough time in the day but i think you get what i mean so try that and try sticking to it hope i helped
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