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ugh best friend again..
i have really fallen for my best friend. i really like him , and i try not to but like i don't know he says he likes me too.. but the thing is; nothing commitment wise is happening, so what should i do if i want him to make a commitment?
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hey, if it's not natural to be "committed" and if it's something that's difficult/stressful to manage...then why not just ...well, not be so committed? although it would be fun, it can also be nice to just have a more chill, laid-back relationship. that would most definitely be less stressful, in my eyes, and you'd have a lower risk of being awkward around eachother.
=) hope i helped!
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This is an age old question, how to get the guy to commit. From a guy's point of view, nothing you say nor do will make him act from the heart. If you force a commitment, then he will wont be happy. You don't want that. Just give it time. If he is into you then he'll decide when to take it further. Like I said before, if you force it then he'll always be thinking in his mind, "Did I do the right thing?" I've been there, done that, got the hat.
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I wanted to add too that there's nothing wrong with getting the ball rolling, meaning you can give tell him how you feel but don't go giving ultimatums.
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