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summer camp
i satarted at a youth group after i went to camp for a weekend in the winter for them, and i really love it and all of the people there. i don't really have any close friends though just people i flirt with or hang out with when i go.it's really fun and there is also a summer camp. i had so much fun at the winter camp it was them ost amazing weekend of my life. and if i'm ever upset i think that i NEED to go back to that because it was perfect. so i obviously want to go to summer camp, but the only problem is my 1 close friend that introduced me to this youth group and introduced me to a lot of people there can't go to the camp because she is going to the beach the same week. i don't want to go to summer camp alone because that has always been a fear of mine and i need someone that i'm really close with to be there with me. even though i do have friends there i still don't want to go alone. i also don't want to invite another friend because both of us hang out with people together so if i brought another friend, no one would know her and it wouldn't be as fun. so, i am asking if there are any ways i could try to make their vacation not happen? like get canceled or something? i know it sounds selfish but they always go to the beach and i've been trying to convince her to go to camp but she won't budge. also don't say to invite another friend because i'm not. i just would like to know if you have any ideas about how to get their vacation canceled, like if there is ANYTHING i can do because this situation is so important to me. and please don't just write back that i'm being selfish and shouldn't try to get her vacation canceled because that won't help me at all.
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You really want to go to the summer camp so go.
Your close friend is not going but that does'nt stop you from going. It will be others there so you won't be alone. Her decision is to do something else and that's ok. Friends don't always do everything together at times and that's fine. She might want to go at another time and you might have plans to do something totally different . Your close friend is not going and you do not want to invite another friend and you don't want to go alone so just invite another friend anyway, you might have a good time and you won't be alone.
Good Luck,
Val
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