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Remember the time you had a huge crush on some guy or girl?
Yeah me too but I still do,
The thing is I told my best friend/crush (that I been drooling over for 8 years and still counting) that I like her more than a friend. I wanted to let her know because to get off my chest, I never thought she will like me back in that way because she is straight. But she Lara always is a close; touchy, leaned her head on me, flirts, tease, and looks at me with a huge smile. She did that before I told her how I felt and she still does after. When she did those things it made me have deeper feeling for her because I thought she liked me back. I study her body language and it never matches of what she is saying. She will lean on me but then say “I like you as a friend” then star flirting. When I told her my feelings she respected it and that I am bi sexual. But she said she doesn’t feel the same way because she is unsure of her sexuality. I knew I had to move on. But when I did she got jealous of the guy I was getting hooked up with. She told me she was jealous of my last two boyfriends. She said “I don’t know if I should be happy or pissed” and “we wouldn’t be close any more if you had a Boy Friend.” and “time will tell for the both of us.” those words run over my head million MORE times that drives me mad! This is her fault! I try to get over her and it still continues she shows me mix signals and I fall for it and hoping she will turn around and say “lets be together!!” its all in my fucking head! All I wanted was just to tell her I like her and move on! The Things she told me were from an email and chartroom. I first told her about the guy in the chat room then she told me she was pissed. Then I emailed her and she explains it was jealousy. Then in 2 months I got the fucking courage to tell her face to face because she ignores the note! And asked “do you like me more than a friend?” she said “no“. So the whole thing is that she toyed with my heart that she literally lied to me saying that she was jealous then turns it around saying she was just being over protective!!! I can’t take this anymore. I m still pissed at her because she STILL is flirting with me. And showing me mix signals and all I want to do is to get over her. In July she will be gone in college to tell you the truth I am happy about it because I want that time to MOVE ON! I just want to be friends without issues and remembering that stupid useless talk we had. I sometimes wished I never told her…
Please reply on what your thoughts are…
aka:lost_lilo
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You can't really blame the way you feel on her.
You said she always acts this way around you.
She hasn't really changed at all. I think you
were hoping she would be attracted to you. Since
she wasn't, you're now reading her all wrong.
Something in the relationship changed for
you when you told her how you felt. It made
you vulnerable. Its making you see things that
may not be there. Probably because you're still
hoping she will change her mind.
Lots of girls are the touchy feely type. It
doesn't mean they are attracted to girls.
They can also get jealous when thier female
friends get a boyfriend, or start dating guys.
It takes time away from them. Its actually
very normal and happens to everyone in thier
teen years.
I think if you just accept that you and her
are never going to happen, your relationship
will get back to normal. Be happy that your
friendship was strong enough to withstand
your confession to her about your feelings.
It could have turned her off and made her
avoid you. It didn't and she is treating
you just the same as always.
Now, if I misunderstood and she is more
flirty and touchy feely than she was
before you said anything, thats just wrong.
If it continues and bothers you, it may
be best to put distance between you for
a while. If you can just blow it off and
tease back like it isn't bothering you. :)
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