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Am i a slut
hiya im a 16 year old girl and i lost my virginity when i was 13 and ever since then its like iv not been able to stop iv slept with about 14 guys since and done loads of stuff i have a really bad repuation of being a slag and i hate myself right now i want it to change but i cant do it. i wish i could move away but i dont think i can what would you think of me and is there any way i can change my repuation.
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Thanks for your question.
Y'know, it's good you've actually realized what you're doing will give you a bad rep. Admitting to something is always the first step of being able to make a change - so well done.
Don't hate yourself - what's done is done.
Make a fresh start - a new you. A new you who has more self respect and more confidence.
There's no need to move away and run from your problems. and I can tell you now that things will eventually calm down. Noone will think of you as a "slag". but you need time for people to forget and realize you are, infact, a changed person.
For now, who really cares what people say about you. If you let people know what they say is getting you down, they won't stop. So you need to act like their words aren't bothering you and keep your head held high.
Everyone makes mistakes, especially when they're young. You, on the other hand actually WANT to make a change.
Just give boys a rest for now, until you find someone you actually want to be in a decent relationship with.
Things will settle eventually, I promise. and remember to ignore any negative comments.
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