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Hey. I have a amazing boyfriend, we've been going out for a long time. I have a problem though. I'm am extremely jealous and i can't help it. What should I do? I don't want to loose him.
Help please.
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I would say, just try and push it aside. Sure, holding in emotions isn't good, so if its gets to an unbearable point, talk to someone about it and get it off your chest. But really, think, being jealous gets you no where. You just go through all these pointless emotions for nothing. It's not like being jealous of some girl whos friends with your boyfriend is going to make her uglier or make her go away. Accecpt that your boyfriend cares about you, I mean if youve been going out for a long time I take it that you really mean something to him. Thing is, you can't just give up and say, "I can't help it", you've got to try and if you already have, try some more. I do believe anything can be overcome with enough will power. I know jealously is hard but consider all the positives you have compaired to whatever makes you jealous. Think how much better you are than stooping down to a jealous level where you may even watch your boyfriends every move to make sure hes not doing anything wrong. Like I said, if its something too hard to hold in, tell someone about it, a trust-worthy friend or maybe even you boyfriend. Hopefully they'll understand or atleast be there to listen to you. Hope this helped =)
-Katie
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