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i need advice..
so im 14/f and sometimes things between me and my boyfriend are awkward. we'll break up if things keep going this way so i am trying to fix it. just.. i dont know how. we've been going out for a month and we still havn't kissed. is that why it's awkward? i hardly ever get to hang out with him but when i do things are great. it's on msn and at school things sometimes are weird. we both really like each other and we both don't want to break up. do you have any suggestions as how to make it not awkward? anything will be greatly appreciated. :)
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talking online might seem like the easiest way to talk, but it can lead to wierd and awkward times in the relationship. when talking online, you can't tell emotion or how someone actually feels. people also seem to be more open online because it often feels easier to talk. they might slip up on something they don't necessarily want you to know. i think you should try cutting back on how much you talk online and start talking more in person and try to hang out more. the more one-on-one time you spend with eachother, the more comfortable you guys will get and there probably won't be many, if any, awkward moments. it takes time to get to that point in a relationship with someone though, so don't expect it to happen the next time you hang out. and just because you haven't kissed doesn't mean that is why. that is one of the stepping stones in trusting the person you are with and getting to know them better. don't push for the kiss unless you are ready for it and you think he is too. it should come natural and you should both go for it, otherwise that could be another very awkward moment. good luck and i hope this helps, if you have any more questions, feel freee to ask! :)
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